The church today needs spiritual parents who will help less mature believers grow in the Lord.

Spiritual parenting requires deliberate, intentional implementation in a local church. Some call “spiritual parenting” having spiritual fathers, mentoring or discipling. Paul said it this way: “For though you might have ten thousand instructors in Christ, yet you do not have many fathers; for in Christ Jesus I have begotten you through the gospel. Therefore I urge you, imitate me” (1 Cor. 4:15-16, NKJV, emphasis added).

Too many are seeking to be elders, deacons, presbyters or bishops before they first bear the fruit of spiritual offspring. Church offices are empty positions unless they are occupied by experienced, mature, spiritual parents in Christ.

Spiritual parents are fathers and mothers to less mature believers who are growing in the Lord. Like natural parenting, spiritual parenting requires a devoted, committed measure of time and attention, which in the 21st-century church might embody the following traits:

1. A focus on relationship beyond rules. Law is important, but rules that stifle relationships reduce churches to being legalistic organizations instead of living organisms. Paul writes, “For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision avails anything, but faith working through love” (Gal. 5:6).

2. A relationship built on friendship, not simply formality. Discipleship and mentoring have too often been stiff and formalized. Friendship involves more than just relating in groups, cells, classes and services. Christian parenting in friendship includes mentoring marriages, holding parent “sharing” times for learning and accountability and working together in the community and workplace (see John 15:15John 15:15
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15 No longer do I call you servants, for the servant doesn’t know what his lord does. But I have called you friends, for everything that I heard from my Father, I have made known to you.

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3. A friendship producing fruit, not just good feelings. We often spend too much time trying to please people instead of equipping, maturing and raising up children in the faith to become mature parents of the faith (see John 15:5John 15:5
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5 I am the vine. You are the branches. He who remains in me, and I in him, the same bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.

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Recently, a close friend in the Lord many years younger than me taught me a valuable lesson in marketplace ethics. How thankful I was that he took the time to be a spiritual parent to me. His insight, counsel, discernment and confrontation helped me mature another step in spiritual growth. In truth, his Spirit-led guidance parented me.

The goal of Christian parenting is equipping the saints (see Eph. 4:12). Equipping requires time, accountability, honesty, purity, integrity, transparency and intimacy. If the hearts of spiritual parents are turned to the spiritual children in our churches, then their hearts will turn toward loving the Father and others. Larry Keefauver serves as a teaching pastor at The Gathering Place Worship Center in Lake Mary, Florida, and has recently authored, Lord, I Wish My Teenager Would Talk With Me (Creation House).

Source: Ministry Today (By Larry Keefauver)

There are times when every parent wonders if they are failing. Their children just don’t obey. They don’t seem to exhibit godliness. And they frequently act selfishly. Fortunately, I know there’s hope — because I’ve been there too.

When my children were growing up, their lack of judgment often disappointed me. I would have to tell them repeatedly that they are to serve others with joy. I taught them that tithing is a privilege. And I showed them that intimacy with God is cultivated by hours spent in prayer and bible study.

When they made mistakes I would remind them of their privileged upbringing in a Christian home. It was a home where their parents truly were committed to the Lord and each other. I was quick to tell them that their father and I had prayed for them since before they were conceived and every day after throughout their lives.

We faithfully took them to church, Vacation Bible School, we home educated, and ended each day in family devotions. So, I would ask myself, why aren’t they more godly, less selfish, and much wiser? Why don’t they have a passion for God, like I do?

It was in my quiet times with the Lord that the answer came:

The issue is not about my doing it “right.”
The issue is the heart, which is always a work of God’s grace.

Growing in grace and in Christ is a process that takes time. Our impatience with our children’s spiritual growth shows our own immaturity and lack of dependence on God.

In studying the Word of God, my own soul was freed from the disappointment that I felt in childrearing. The Lord had shown me my own heart as I pointed out my children’s faults. We love to receive grace, yet we are often stingy in giving grace to others.

Once I pulled the log out of my own eye, I was then free to wait on God to finish the work He had begun. After all, He’s the only one who can complete the work in my children’s lives. Oh, I was still doing all the good things I had done before, but now the burden was lifted off my shoulders and placed at the feet of Christ. It truly is amazing grace!!!!!! Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it. (Ps 127:1Ps 127:1
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127 A Song of Ascents. By Solomon. ¹ Unless Yahweh builds the house, They labor in vain who build it. Unless Yahweh watches over the city, The watchman guards it in vain.

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“Though I am free and belong to no man, I make myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible”
(I Corinthians 9:19)

One way to become a witness is to take a more proactive stance in helping people. Several years ago I was sitting in my Strategy Coordinator training for the International Mission Board. I don’t recall who was speaking or if they actually said the line, but I wrote down in my notes “If you can help people succeed, they will be more open to you.”

Since that time I have tried to learn as much as I can about the needs of the community I serve, in order to identify ways I can help others succeed. In fact my entire marketing strategy is based on the idea of identifying needs before you start developing outreach. Get to know the people. Learn their needs. Link your message to a solution to their needs.

Knowing your audiences and their needs also helps you complete the marketing circle: Match the media to the people. Share the good news with a written marketing plan. Close the loop with follow-up, get feedback, and evaluate your outreach. I could talk about this for hours.

Is there anyone you know you can help succeed?

A Christian should never help someone succeed at something that is wrong (Phil. 4:8). But anything that is wholesome and good for people; anything that would help them, is something a Christian can help others accomplish. This leaves the door open for all kinds of great service. When you serve others they become more open to you. The contact you have with them is positive and as you help them, you develop a relationship that naturally leads to openings for sharing the gospel.

So how can you help someone who is in need? It doesn’t always have to be people who are down-and-out. There are people who need all kinds of help. Where can you lend a hand? Go back to your prayer list of people who need to know about Jesus, is there any way you can be a help to them?

Please no more “relevant ministry” that is irrelevant to the community!

I have been in several situations where the cool pastor of a church plant told me, “Our church is for the radically unchurched” only later to interview their members (who transfered in mostly from other less-cool churches in the area) in a focus group who told me, “I don’t really know any non-Christians”.

Sometimes pastors tell themselves their church is more outreach oriented that it actually is. I think this phenomenon comes from the tendencies of some pastors to read mostly books about reaching the “radically” unchurched, but to spend little time actually engaging in outreach to them.

I am tired of seeing “relevant ministry” that is irrelevant to the community. Relevance has nothing to do with the style of your hair, the type of sound system your church has, or what edgy conferences you attend each year!

Pastor, please lead your church members to get outside the walls of their church building and into their community. Instead of beefing up your building with a new coffee shop nook, or getting that “knock-your-socks-off” image magnification system, spend money on outreach!

Infiltrate with the gospel!

Get involved in your community! If your church becomes a servant of the community, you will also find many open doors for evangelistic outreach. Create opportunities for your church members to start relationships with people who don’t know Jesus.

Your church doesn’t always have to start the ministries that are needed. In fact, if you can, don’t start a ministry in your community if a “secular” version already exists—join the existing organization. Infiltrate with the gospel!

* For example, your church could provide volunteers for the local food pantry. Just by working side-by-side with people who don’t know Jesus, relational evangelism “little opportunities” will abound! As your members work with the other people who also volunteer, they may meet a person who needs Jesus. Besides all the people you can reach who use the services of the pantry!

* Instead of building a gym only members of your church would take advantage of. Use the money to pay for your members to get involved in the local gyms in your community as missionaries. They will be able to share their faith with people they meet there. Also, your members will be healthier and more active in other ways in your church.

* One church wanted to start a motor cycle club in a community where there were very active motor cycle clubs. Rather than starting a Christian biker’s club, members of the church joined the clubs that already existed. They developed a prayer and encouragement support group for Christians who joined the clubs.

* By not starting their own club, the church would not siphon all the Christians out of the existing clubs — but instead, they could be “salt and light” in among the total community of bikers. The church members have more evangelistic opportunity and credibility with bikers when they are members of the standard clubs everyone has heard of. Now that is thinking strategically!

When you do join other groups be sure to set an example through hard work and commitment. Don’t be a half-hearted member, you won’t have the credibility and influence that leads to evangelistic opportunity.

If you crossover take the cross over!

Also, don’t forget the gospel! When your church takes an active stance in getting involved in the community, you need to make sure all your efforts are not just doing good—you need to tell people about the good news!

Some have become enamored so much with social work and have taken on working side-by-side with nonbelieving social progressives that they have lost their zeal to be a witness for Jesus Christ. You need to keep your agenda of proclaiming the gospel. As Paul says, “I make myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible.”

Become a servant, help others succeed!

Source: Chris Forbes, Founder, Ministry Marketing Coach

Some 37 million online Bible references were surveyed and then ranked by popularity to create a website that makes searching for scriptures easier.

TopVerses.com ranked every Bible verse by popularity and published the results on its website, which launched this month. Instead of starting in Genesis, the ranked search shows popular verses first. It found that 87 of the top 100 verses are from the New Testament.“Putting the most popular verses first makes the Bible much more accessible.

All sorts of people are visiting the site and seeing the Bible in a new way,” said Peter B. Chapman, the creator of TopVerses.com. “I love finding old favorites in Psalms. You can see the top 10 Proverbs by simply clicking on Proverbs.”The most popular verse was John 3:16John 3:16
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16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life.

, with over twice the reference as the second most popular verse – John 1.1.

Although the book of John was the most popular Gospel, it was ranked sixth overall with the book of Ephesians taking first place.

Shorter books tended to score better with the book of Malachi being the most popular book from the Old Testament and ranked 19th overall. It had five verses in the top 1,000op 1,000
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Štetje svetopisemskih vrstic se za?ne z ¹! Vrstica ⁰ ne obstaja!

most popular verses. “You no longer have to search through a hundred verses to find the one you have in mind. Most of the time, I find it on the first page,” said Pastor Jason Hubbart of Every Nation Church in Sydney, in a report.

Top 10 Verses:

1. John 3:16John 3:16
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16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life.

- For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

2. John 1:1John 1:1
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The Gospel According to John ^{1 1} In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

- In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

3. John 14:6John 14:6
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6 Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.

- Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me”.

4. Matthew 28:19Matthew 28:19
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19 Therefore go, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,

- Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.

5. Romans 3:23Romans 3:23
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23 for all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God;

- For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.

6. Ephesians 2:8Ephesians 2:8
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8 for by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God,

- For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith-and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God.

7. Genesis 1:1Genesis 1:1
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Genesis ^{1 1} In the beginning God After “God,” the Hebrew has the two letters “Aleph Tav” as a grammatical marker. created the heavens and the earth.

- In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.

8. Acts 1:8Acts 1:8
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8 But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you. You will be witnesses to me in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the uttermost parts of the earth.”

- But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.

9. 2 Timothy 3:162 Timothy 3:16
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16 Every writing inspired by God literally, God-breathed is profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for instruction which is in righteousness,

- All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness.

10. Romans 10:9Romans 10:9
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9 that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.

- That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.

Top 10 Chapters:

1. 2 Peter 1
2. Psalm 1
3. John 2
4. James 4
5. Romans 12
6. Isaiah 53
7. John 3
8. Romans 1
9. James 1
10. Acts 1

Top 10 Books:

1. Ephesians
2. James
3. Titus
4. 1 John
5. 2 Peter
6. John
7. Philippians
8. Colossians
9. Romans
10. 1 Peter

Source : The Christian Post